Syncing what you think you are and what you are

The measure of what you think you are and what you are can be very different. This would have been okay if it meant you would never know that there was an imbalance. This is probably why they say ignorance is bliss. Sadly, people around you might let you in on it — mostly it's [...]

Why downplay something that you want?

She was just back to meet me for a coffee after an interview. She looked like she really wanted the job. There was this overly excited face expression mixed with a touch of nervousness when she spoke. I knew her for a very long time. I knew that she really wanted the job for some [...]